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What Does It Mean If I Have Vaginismus?

The Problem Is Understood Differently Depending
On The Professional Treating You. 

Definitions

Whose Definitions? 

It is important to understand who is defining your problem. 

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The two most common manuals professionals use are:

International Classification of Diseases (ICD)- Doctors

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)- Mental Health

 

These manuals standardize patient research, diagnosis, and treatment. 

(APA, 2013; Carvalho et al., 2011; First & Westen, 2007).

a picture of the dictionary definition of the word translation, sex therapist in NJ, tight vagina

Who Does This Impact?

Who This Impacts
Vaginismus is a worldwide problem & can affect people from multiple cultures.
 
However, research states it occurs more often with:
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  • Limited sexual education
  • Decreased understanding of their body
  • Conservative religious backgrounds
  • Body shame related to cultural norms
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Anğın et al., 2020; Dolezal & Lyons, 2017; Fadul et al., 2019, Teitelman, 2004

***This is not an exhaustive list of countries where women experience vaginismus.
This represents the cultural identities of the women I have treated.

Transgender Persons

Transgender Community
Click this video above to hear from our expert, Dr. Angela Stoehr

Vaginismus affects the transgender community through a diversity of experiences and expressions as this condition embodies intersectionality with unique considerations.
Holmberg, M., Arver, S. & Dhejne, C. (2020)

Listen to what Dr. Angela Stoehr has to share.

Resources for Transgender Persons- click here
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Pain with sexual penetration is a concern that impacts the transgender community. However, trans men and trans women experience painful intercourse for different reasons. 

Holmberg, M., Arver, S. & Dhejne, C. (2020)

Click this video above to hear from our expert, Dr. Angela Stoehr

*This diagnosis affects all genders and sexualities; however, I focused my research on cisgender, heterosexual females. 

** There is limited published research on treatments or innovations, specifically for transgender persons who experience painful vaginal penetration.

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Relationship Difficulty

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"I want to be pregnant, to prove to myself and others, we have sex."

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Intimacy Issues 

"I keep thinking, how many more times am I going to disappointment my partner"

Shame

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"I feel so much shame, I can’t be the wife he thought he was going to get”

Vaginismus is not just an individual problem,
it is a couples' problem. 

See below how vaginismus impacted a married couple for over 10 years of their relationship.

Couples' Expeience
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