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What Does It Mean If I Have Vaginismus?
The Problem Is Understood Differently Depending
On The Professional Treating You.
Definitions
Whose Definitions?
It is important to understand who is defining your problem.
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The two most common manuals professionals use are:
International Classification of Diseases (ICD)- Doctors
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)- Mental Health
These manuals standardize patient research, diagnosis, and treatment.
(APA, 2013; Carvalho et al., 2011; First & Westen, 2007).
Who Does This Impact?
Who This Impacts
Vaginismus is a worldwide problem & can affect people from multiple cultures.
However, research states it occurs more often with:
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Limited sexual education
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Decreased understanding of their body
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Conservative religious backgrounds
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Body shame related to cultural norms
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Anğın et al., 2020; Dolezal & Lyons, 2017; Fadul et al., 2019, Teitelman, 2004
China
Pakistan
Turkey
Argentina
India
United States
***This is not an exhaustive list of countries where women experience vaginismus.
This represents the cultural identities of the women I have treated.
Transgender Persons
Transgender Community
Vaginismus affects the transgender community through a diversity of experiences and expressions as this condition embodies intersectionality with unique considerations.
Holmberg, M., Arver, S. & Dhejne, C. (2020)
Listen to what Dr. Angela Stoehr has to share.
Resources for Transgender Persons- click here.
Pain with sexual penetration is a concern that impacts the transgender community. However, trans men and trans women experience painful intercourse for different reasons.
Holmberg, M., Arver, S. & Dhejne, C. (2020)
*This diagnosis affects all genders and sexualities; however, I focused my research on cisgender, heterosexual females.
** There is limited published research on treatments or innovations, specifically for transgender persons who experience painful vaginal penetration.
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Relationship Difficulty
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"I want to be pregnant, to prove to myself and others, we have sex."
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Intimacy Issues
"I keep thinking, how many more times am I going to disappointment my partner"
Shame
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"I feel so much shame, I can’t be the wife he thought he was going to get”
Vaginismus is not just an individual problem,
it is a couples' problem.
See below how vaginismus impacted a married couple for over 10 years of their relationship.
Couples' Expeience
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